Going to gay club alone

Sometimes, going out with friends can seem to be like a chore: waiting for them to finish getting ready, taking care of who gets shitfaced, deciding which bar/club to go to. 1 Discussion in ' Sexual Orientation ' started by Confuseddude , Jul 3, Empty Closets. 2 No, it's weird to go to a gay bar alone and you will probably be awkward. Hi everyone! I'm 27, recently out, was married previously. We've officially separated, and have been living apart for about a month and a half now. The problem is that I'm lonely. 3 Yes, we are social creatures but who said we had to wait for someone else to want what we want before we do what we want to do? I remember when I first started going to bars alone. 4 Despite how intimidating it may seem, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with going to a gay bar by yourself. Don’t be daunted, just follow these tips and you’re guaranteed to be the best wingman you’ve ever had. 5 Empty Closets. Learn More. 6 After nearly two years of on and off closures, going to a nightclub still feels like a revelation – there’s a sweaty hedonism in the air that wasn’t around in the simpler times of But. 7 Long before the internet and gay dating apps came into existence, gay bars perfected the art of creating safe spaces for the queer community. Unlike in the past, when gay bars were hidden, modern queer bars are as common as any mainstream bars in most countries. 8 I have never gone to a gay bar alone & don't think I could. I have social anxiety and I'm afraid of looking out of place but I really believe if I did go out alone, I wouldn't have problems. 9 . 10