My best friend is a gay

If your friend comes out to you, you may be surprised by the news. But it's important to react in a way that's gentle, understanding, and kind. To learn everything you need to know about how to properly respond when you're friend comes out to you, read on. 1 Today almost everyone knows of someone who identifies as gay or deals with a measure of same gender attractions. Even if a Christian finds himself in a season of life where he does not personally know of a same gender attracted SGA person in his sphere of influence, this question is of utmost importance in light of the change of our culture and the growing willingness of Christians dealing with SGA to openly talk about their issues. 2 I'm 18, and I've been friends with him for a good four years, maybe a bit longer. He's one of my closest friends, and we've been through a lot together. We have tons of shared interests and he's one of just a few of my friends who I consider myself to be very comfortable with. He is gay. He came out when we were 3 My boyfriend, who is a straight male, has had a best friend also male since they were in high school. Several years ago his best friend came out as gay, which of course is perfectly fine. 4 We’ve interviewed licensed clinical psychologist Kateri Berasi to find the best ways to figure out if your BFF is gay. We’ll also cover how to deal with a crush on them or let them down easily if they have a crush on you. 5 I moved to a big city in , where my best gay pal has lived for years. Thing is, he can be a very negative person. 6 For many LGBTQ people, figuring out—and then coming to terms with—their sexuality is a lonely process, so a friend who loves and accepts them is a great thing to find outside the proverbial. 7 Such a caring friend. Because, let's face it, women are kind of depressing. 8 When your friend tells you she's gay, you might not know what to say at first. But really listening—and being open to what she has to say—is the first step toward supporting her. Here's what. 9 . 10 . 12